Why do people snob

Everyone wants to be liked and be seen as interesting and attractive, but snobs can take it too far. They can often become very obsessive about how they look and how they come across, and be caught up in themselves. You might notice that nights out now revolve around them trying to convince you all to go to the fancy, expensive cocktail bar instead of the usual pub you all used to love. Maybe they try to force you to eat at pricey rooftop restaurants with them when you can only really afford something cheaper.

They might try to put pressure on you to live up to the standards they hold for themselves, which can really put a strain on the friendship.

This can go one step further and result in them actively criticizing your taste or putting you down for wanting to go to normal places, or to cheaper, more friendly pubs or cafes. Nothing will change unless they can understand how their behavior is impacting you. Tell them that you understand that you have different tastes in some things, but that you still want to hang out and continue to do the things you mutually love.

Avoid attacking them or coming across as confrontational, but tell them that you really value your friendship with them and want to be honest so that you can move forwards — together. Maybe you know that your friend has very, very specific opinions on craft coffee or artisanal bakeries.

How do you talk like a snob? What is a snobby voice? How do you act like a rich snob? What are some snobby words? What do you call a rich snob? What is a positive word for snobby?

What do you call a rich person? What is another word for elitism? How do you get super BFF back on Snapchat? Why does my Snapscore say 0?

Notice who gets to talk aimlessly, and who is expected to bite their tongue. Then consider how you want to be. Think about your values. Notice how you feel. Reflect on what you value and what feels authentic to you. So now your challenge is to accept these noises that people make and live with them. That makes them feel weak and anxious and angry at you sometimes.

It often feels like people expect a lot more from you than everyone else in the room. Is that your problem? Do you need to fix it? Anxious, blaming people are everywhere. Keep that in mind and try to cultivate compassion for them. All that matters is that you tune into reality, and decide for yourself how you want to be and what you want to focus on and how you want to live.

I reached a similar crossroads two years ago. Other friends could grow quiet and no one seemed to notice, but when I got quiet, people would get edgy. It felt uncomfortable at first. It took some time for me to accept. But I also realized how often I was misunderstood, and instead of feeling bad about that, it felt almost emancipatory. I have a bad attitude about all kinds of crazy shit that other people love and believe in.

So why was I trying to keep a grip on my approval rating everywhere I went? After my initial shame over being disliked or misunderstood wore off, I sort of stopped giving a fuck in a permanent way. Instead of working very hard to win love from everrrrrryone, I started to focus my energy on the people I enjoyed and admired and loved the most. I like staying right here and doing it this way. I also like a lot of gushing, long-winded, enthusiastic people.

Anyone who believes that is afraid of being a person, period.